Hi Ian,

I have e-mailed you, but should you not receive it, I wish to relay my deepest condolences to you and Sandra's family in this time of bereavement. I know there is not much I can say at the moment to grant you solace; but I am sure that, with time, your grief will ease and some new form of normality will be restored to your life.

Rest in Peace Sandra.

Kindest Regards,
Sean

Ian i only seen this post now. What to say?? what can you say ... but all i know is this, i have never met you or sandra and when this happened it affected me as if i'd known you's a long time. Since I met you on 888 you have praised Sandra and there was rarely a conversation without her in it you adored her and I am sure she adored you for the brave compassionate man that you are. You were her hero. You have lost your compannion and I know you are in so much pain and I pray for a better time for you, a time when you can look back without regret that you werent there 2 mins earlier but look back and say wow that brave woman has made such an amazing  mark on my life and even though the grief in unfathomable there is as you say the light at the end of the tunnel and you will see it, the grief and pain will never leave completely but as days go by things will eventually seem more managable and until then you have all of us on here to support you. You are the nicest most generous and patient man I know Ian and there are better times ahead for you. You have some amazing m888's on here who all care dearly for you and all you have to do if you ever need it is pop online or pick up the phone.

R.I.P Sandra my heart goe's out to your family in this sad time.

xxxx

+1 yep, keep thinking the same.